Abstract

Everyone has trouble socializing......
How to be at a distance from people that person told me.

Why is it that I can't open up to anyone when that person can get along with everyone so easily? Why is it so hard for me to say, "I don't think that's right," even when I feel a small sense of discomfort? I hear people denying me or saying bad things about me. How can I recover from being hurt by someone's words? Relationships with others are not something you can do on your own. You are at a loss because you cannot make it work through your own efforts. I can get along with that person, but my heart is not in the right place with this person...... There may not be a right answer to "how to be at a distance from others" because it depends on personalities and situations.
Even so, we try to find a "comfortable distance" for ourselves and relate to someone. Because of our mistakes and hurts, we become grateful for the next encounter. Because we decide to stand alone, we resonate with others who are standing alone.
Because we are outside of our own control, we feel as if we are learning something important while adjusting our distance from others.
Perhaps it is because we don't have the right answer within ourselves that we learn the joy of "receiving" from the person next to us.

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