Abstract

Caring for aging parents is something that eventually comes to many of us, sooner or later. For the author, that time came in their 30s. Their father was diagnosed with early-onset dementia, while their mother was simultaneously diagnosed with terminal cancer. Suddenly, they found themselves thrust into the role of being the primary caregiver for both parents.
This book is an illustrated essay that tenderly and humorously depicts the everyday life of this dual caregiving experience. The author, a single freelancer in their 30s residing in Shiwacho, Iwate Prefecture, shares their struggles and triumphs in juggling the responsibilities of caregiving. Through heartwarming illustrations and manga-style storytelling, the book presents a poignant and heartfelt family narrative. It teaches us valuable lessons about not giving up on our own lives while providing care and the importance of maintaining a positive attitude.

Author’s Information

Kishimoto Youko was born in 1961 in Kanagawa Prefecture. She is an essayist who graduated from the University of Tokyo's Faculty of Liberal Arts. After working for an insurance company, she studied in Beijing, China. Since returning to Japan, she has been active in various newspapers and magazines, writing essays about everyday life and travel. Her books include "Don't You Think It's Okay Not to Throw Away?" (Chuko Bunko), "What's Life Like in Your 50s?" (Daiwa Bunko), "Hello, Second Half of Life" (Chuo Koron Shinsha), "Wisely Enjoying Living Alone in Old Age" (Bunkyo-sha), and many others.